Building Meaningful Connections & Trusting Your Gut

All the different colors and nuances that make up our relationships can sometimes take us by SURPRISE in both positive and challenging ways, especially when we’re trying to stay true to what we’re called to do. Lately, I’ve been thinking about what it really means to open up and let others in. For me, the gift of discernment from Yahuah (YHWH) has been a steady guide, helping me trust my gut in identifying when a connection is meant to bring peace and build something purposeful.

Along the way, I’ve learned the importance of guarding, recognizing, and aligning with the right connections. Here’s how:

1. Guarding Peace & Purpose: As we open ourselves up, we may feel a tug in our spirit. 🤔 Something just isn’t right. It’s important to realize that not everyone is meant to walk this path with us. “Turn away from evil and do good; Seek peace and pursue it” (Tehillim/Psalm 34:14) reminds us that the peace we’re building is worth protecting.

2. Recognizing Genuine Connection: Discernment acts as a filter, helping us see who really cares and who’s truly here for us. Those who are steady and consistent make their intentions clear through their words and actions. “Iron is sharpened by iron, and a man sharpens the face of his friend” (Mishlě/Proverbs 27:17). Real friends help us grow and bring out the best in us.

3. Aligning with Yah’s Guidance: When we’re walking in discernment, it’s like having a compass that keeps us aligned with Yahuah’s purpose. If something feels off, that’s our cue to step back, analyze, and trust in His guidance. “Do not be deceived, ‘Evil company corrupts good habits’” (Qorintiyim Aleph/1 Corinthians 15:33) teaches us that guarding the energy around us is key for righteous living.

📝 Side Note:

It’s crucial to remember that discernment doesn’t imply that others have bad intentions. Just because someone doesn’t fit into our lives doesn’t mean they won’t be a great fit for someone else. Discernment helps us find connections that bring peace (shalom), growth, support, and model Yahuah’s love.

💭 Some final thoughts:

With that in mind, these lessons highlight that relationships exist on different levels of closeness, distinguishing that some people enter our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. My great-grandmother taught my mom, “You’re blessed if you can count your real friends on one hand.” Some will be like family, while others may not communicate often but have always been there when it counts. Then there are those who might not align with us or have our best interests at heart. By staying ROOTED in discernment, we open the door to internal peace and meaningful connections. This is especially important as we understand the varying levels of closeness in relationships.

In the end, it’s about appreciating those who truly uplift us and support our path toward Yah’s purpose. Who are the people in your life that bring out the BEST in you? Just as we desire to see vibrant colors in our relationships, let’s strive to embody those same qualities in our own lives, radiating the beautiful traits we wish to see in others. 🌼

🩵 Talk Soon, Much Love and #HUSB!

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